Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Can you share the entire summary of your spiritual life?

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

Are today’s baseball pitchers faster than a few years ago, or is it that radar guns have improved and get the pitch speed as it is released rather than as it reaches the plate?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !